It is necessary to make a change in our attitude or to adopt a new frame of reference if we want a change to occur. If we’re in the same place we were last year, then we must consider changing our attitude.
If we dislike the situation we put ourselves in, then we got to redirect our energies toward something else that will bring in new meanings in our lives. Laminating on what we dislike in a situation will not get us out of the situation.
This is a waste of time and energy. Instead we can focus our attention on what we’re going to do about it. That means coming up with a plan and executing it; this is a call action plan.
Some things we don’t have control over. But we do have control over what we do and what we decide to do if we want to affect change in our attitude.