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Loss and Gain with Change

Published on by Eugene Morgan

San Diego, CA

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Don’t be afraid of change. You may lose something good, but you may gain something better. —Unknown

Change is a loss and gain at the same time. When we graduate with our class, we move on and gradually lose touch with our friends we’ve developed over the course of fours or more. When we move from one place to another, we leave neighbors that we’ve grew up with. When we switched jobs or change careers, we move ‘what was’ to pursue ‘what will be.’ Everything is constantly on the move. It is something that’s hard to get use to. However, since change is inevitable, we don’t have a choice in the matter. Therefore, we need to be as flexible as can be because we might gain something better.

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Self-Knowledge and Self-Improvement

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“Self knowledge is the beginning of self improvement.” — Spanish Proverb

How can we make changes when we don’t know what changes to make. For change to occur we must look inside ourselves to see what we’re doing to avoid changing. The things we don’t want to change in us are probably because we’re getting something out of them. We don’t want to admit to ourselves that we must give up the beliefs for us make a change. We want to stay a certain way because there is some kind of gain we get from it but at the same time is keeping us from moving forward. A secondary gain is usually about our dependent need to blame another and not allows ourselves to move pass that point in order for us to grow and to claim responsibility. We’re responsible for making our own mark.

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