Change has to be done by us. No one can make change occur within us. We bear the burden of responsibility to cause change within.
We have to decide what we want changed in our lives. When we commit to changing ourselves, we’re not giving away our power.
We need the power to change. It’s no use to waiting for someone to change us because that’s giving away our power. Changing is a subjective experience that occurs within each of us.
No one has the right to force change on to another person. No one likes change forced upon him or her. Everyone has to decide to make a change for him or her. Beside we ultimately have to make the changes ourselves, if we want to be adaptive to new situations.