“If you don’t create change, change will create you.”— unknown
When change creates us, we don’t have to complain that we have no control over our lives. But instead we ought to invite some of those changes when they are not made by us that are useful. Most changes are an opportunity for self-improvement. If the external changes are leading to where we don’t want to go, then it is time to create changes for ourselves. But if the external changes are leading to where we want to go, then we should go along with it. When we create the changes in our lives, we are taking control of our lives.