Post Written By Eugene Morgan
“Cry. Forgive. Learn. Move on. Let your tears water the seeds of your future happiness.”— Steve Maraboli
To Cry, to forgive, to learn and to move on is a good sequence to start the process of healing. In the privacy of our home, it is okay to cry. Although it is difficult for some men to cry publicly, it is all right to cry privately. We can cry and still remain strong. After a good cry, it is now time to forgive. Forgiveness is another difficult things to do. Forgiveness is accepting the pain that the event has caused. Milton Erickson says that all our feelings are done by us. If all our feelings are done by us, then we have the power to let go of the pain. Throughout this process we can learn something about ourselves. To move on means to put those things behind and look forward to a new beginning.