We ought not let others define who we are as people. Sometimes we think that because someone wants us to be a certain way doesn’t mean there is something wrong with us. We’re all unique people. Each of us looks at the world slightly different.
Sometimes, we find ourselves wanting to define or to change someone’s personality. We ought to leave the other person alone because he or she will, for the most part, find his or her own way through life just as we’re finding our own way.
Variety of personalities is better than everyone trying to fit into one type of personality. We need different perspectives and different gifts and talents to give as citizens of the universe.