Problem is only a feedback telling us to look at it differently. It stays a problem as long as we see it as one. When we begin to look at the problem differently we begin to readjust our behavior.
When our behavior is readjusted, also the reaction from others will change. Others will no longer see us the same way. Their reactions and/or new responses encourage our new behaviors.
Behaviors and responses are actions. We respect actions because we respond better when we see them. Actions are concrete and easy to see. Actions and/or movements make the world go around.