Post Written By Eugene Morgan A person with a dull lifestyle welcomes change while a person who is preoccupied with uncertainties won’t. When one’s life is mundane and colorless without variety even the slightest change will rock that person’s world into something that’s more meaningful and colorful. However, someone who’s preoccupied with uncertainties change would only […]
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When Changes Keep Us Off Balance
Post Written By Eugene Morgan Changes can keep us off-balance if we don’t learn to readjust. If I happened to break my right wrist which is my dominate hand. I would have to learn how to write with my left hand which is my non-dominate hand. My many years of writing with my right will […]
Experience is Far Better than Reward
Post Written By Eugene Morgan A reward is just a reinforcer for doing a service of some kind. What we learn from our journey is what’s important. Every one of us has journeys. A journey is something we experience for a certain time.The greatest journey is about experiencing life and how we want to experience […]
Attitude Changes Things
Post Written By Eugene Morgan It is necessary to make a change in our attitude or to adopt a new frame of reference if we want a change to occur. If we’re in the same place we were last year, then we must consider changing our attitude. If we dislike the situation we put ourselves […]
When Resistance is winning
Post Written By Eugene Morgan We can get frustrated at times, when we’re resisted to new changes; changes that we want in our life. At our work places, change is inevitable, although we express resistance a little, we do eventually readjust our behavior to the changes. One motivating factor is that we want to keep […]
Going Beyond Barriers
Post Written By Eugene Morgan We all have barriers that restrain us from doing what we want to do. Fear of failure, the unknown, lack of information, not willing to learn, time, lack of support, to name a few, could be described as barriers that obstruct us from doing what we want to do. But […]
We Are Not Alone In Our Struggles
Post Written By Eugene Morgan We’re not alone in our struggles to make things better for ourselves. Anything we want changed in our lives will be a struggle. To make a change means to break up old habits. Old habits are hard to die. We feel comfortable and familiar with our old habits. If we […]
Life Changing Experiences
Post Written By Eugene Morgan When do we know when we’re on the verge of a life changing experience? Life changing events seems to occur in times of need or desperation. Life changing events also happens when we’re sick and tired of being sick and tired of situation we’re in and want something to happen. […]
Changes Occur Within Us
Post Written By Eugene Morgan Change has to be done by us. No one can make change occur within us. We bear the burden of responsibility to cause change within. We have to decide what we want changed in our lives. When we commit to changing ourselves, we’re not giving away our power. We need […]
Observe, then Change it
Post Written By Eugene Morgan If we want to learn something about ourselves, we must observe ourselves. Most of our behaviors are done without our knowledge. If we want to make a change in a certain area in our lives we must observe what we do to resist change. Change isn’t easy. But if we […]
Change Your Prototype
Post Written By Eugene Morgan Milton Erickson doesn’t tell his patients that they will need more flexibilility; instead he sets up the patients to do something to break up the inflexibility. Rigidity can create a lot of anxiety in our lives. We all have rigidity, some more than others. Some of us wonder why we […]
The Things We Can’t Change
Post Written By Eugene Morgan There are some things we can’t change. Those things we can’t change, we must let go. Acceptance helps us to deal with things we can’t change. Things that are beyond our control, we can’t change. Acceptance can be a powerful force, because we can steer our energies into something else […]
Learn, Adapt, and Survive
Post Written By Eugene Morgan Adaptation is learning how to make adjustment in a difficult situation. If we don’t adapt we won’t survive. Adapting is an attitude as well. Optimism is one of those attitudes we must adapt, if we’re going to survive. Being flexible is a keynote to adaptation. We must bend to changes […]
A Different Conclusion of Change
Written By Eugene Morgan What about change? Change is good. There are things we can change and there are things we can’t change. Perhaps we can’t change certain things, but we can change our attitude about them. But how can we change the way we look at things? One way we can change the […]
Plan a Change
Written by Eugene Morgan It’s up to us to make a change. We have the power within ourselves to make a change, if we want to. If we want to improve our lives, we then have to decide to improve it. After we decide to improve our situation, we then can write-up a plan. After […]
Build on Your Strengths
Written by Eugene Morgan Milton Erickson uses anything and everything that a person brings to the office. Whenever someone walks in Erickson’s office, Erickson would always look for something in that person to use to aid change. What someone saw as a liability, Erickson saw as an asset that’s useful to aid change. Erickson never stops […]
Change equals Constant
Written by Eugene Morgan “The only thing is constant is change.” We all develop patterns. It takes practice to develop patterns. Patterns developed through repeated behaviors to produce a desired outcome. If circumstances change, then the patterns of behavior need an adjustment. An example of circumstances of change is when we’re required to drive a car with a […]