We all have imperfections. And we can laugh at them if we wish. Nonetheless, we sometimes focus too much on our imperfections.
When we see a self-portrait of ourselves, all we see is imperfections. In some cases, we may even distort them to an extreme.
But what we see is a lot different from what the other person sees. Two people, seeing the same object, see two different things.
But when we can laugh at our imperfections, our ideation about what we think we should look like eclipses. Interestingly, what we care most about, when it comes to self-image, others care less about.
It’s really about changing our ideation about what we should look like.